I’m alone 24/7 365 days a year. I never married, no one pays me a lick of attention, I walk the earth totally invisible to people. I’ve lived alone for I think 3 decades without any comfort of another human being to talk to or anything!
So why is it that when I go to a medical clinic I get body shamed for gaining weight? And it isn’t just body shaming it’s cruel body shaming.
People I ain’t perfect, and worse I’m all alone in the world. What in the hell do you expect? I’m ain’t Halle Berry folks. I don’t have access to a freaking personal trainer & I don’t know how to use those weight machines or any gym equipment. I’m challenged there. I have no family, I have nothing.
SO cut me some slack will you? I don’t get it, when I was slender & highly attractive NO ONE paid me attention nor sought my hand in marriage except for those creepy guys who only wanted sex. And trust me I had no one protecting me either. Being a female is extremely dehumanizing. When your pretty & thin men (or women) want sex. When you’ve gained weight your dehumanized & demoralized. I told you it’s a cruel world for a black woman.