Parents Don’t Seem To Give A Damn About Girls

When it comes to the raising of young girls parents just don’t seem to give a damn!

There I said it.   Don’t like what I said, feel free to leave & read another blog because I’m angry over how young girls are treated.   I guess this comes in the wake of me discovering the story of a young 12 year old little girl in Georgia who committed suicide back in 2016.   You can read about her story which I’ve wrote up I called it Katelyns Back Story.    If you don’t want to then its on you.    But I have a serious issue with how Fathers aren’t around for their Daughters ( are they taking up with another woman, scared of the childs Mother WTF?)  I’m tired of how the Mother because SHE gets overwhelmed takes out her rage on

the Daughter instead of acting like a grown up & handling her business like she is supposed to do.  And if she doesn’t know how to do that then they have this thing its called THERAPY.   FAMILY THERAPY!   Take some F**king responsibility will you!   Because trust me there will be more child suicides & hell there have been many before Katelyn & there will continue to be if you Parents don’t step up to the plate.   Kids can’t raise themselves.   Kids can’t raise their own siblings or even be caregivers that’s what daycare & relatives are for.    It’s up to you to do the damn research & problem solve how to take care of your kids because do you know what?

these kids are the future they will be adults one day girls are not sexual objects, girls are not supposed to be Mothers when they are still young & developing themselves, girls should be nurtured, girls should be treated like the little princesses that they are, .  If you can’t take care of them that’s okay, then put them with relatives who care or some other alternative.  And YouTube needs to remove certain content off its website.    When will people learn that girls lives MATTER!   

 

American Families

Awful!  I’m talking about how the family unit just neglect their children.  I’m writing this in particular to a YouTube video about a 12 year old child.

Her name?

Katelyn Nicole Davis

She was born in 2004.  She died 2016.   She didn’t live long.   I’m twice her age so she should still be alive.   All she had were her Vlogs that she did on YouTube the name of which was called “Itz Dolly”.   Katelyn didn’t do too many.

Here is what I know about her & mind you I only discovered this youngster last night by accident on the eve of Easter.

Katelyn Nicole Davis was:

12 years old

She lived with a Mother who was addicted to drugs, the Mother often left Katelyn to care for Katelyns younger siblings for days at a time.

Katelyn lived in a very dilapidated mobile home in Cedarbrook Georgia.

Katelyn got good grades

Katelyn was raped by her Mothers boyfriend then further verbally humiliated.  Men sure are the lowest scumbags to prey on a 12 year old girl like that….SMH.

Katelyn had a BFF , however the BFF due to jealousy abandoned Katelyn don’t know how many of you out there ever experience the devastation of suddenly being alienated by someone you THOUGHT was your friend but I have & it is very painful especially if you have no parent who can walk you through this.  When you a child it’s extremely devastating!  I had just this very thing happen to me when I was around 14 years old, and I wasn’t even treated with any dignity or given a reason. People sure can be ignorant.

Unfortunately due to the lack of love at home, nothing positive going on at her school she turned to some loser of a guy someone named Luke Callahan, total scumbag   A disgusting teenage degenerate.  Katelyn was so much better than that. BUT she had no self esteem well of course she didn’t no one treated her with ANY nor taught her any self worth that really needed to have come from the PARENTS!  GOD, parents your older kids aren’t there to be little grown  ups to the younger siblings.   Parents  *sigh*

Katelyn always mentioned in her vlogs that she hated Christmas.  It was with good reason that she did because her Mother would buy her gifts at a discounted dollar store & often was so thoughtless didn’t bother to get Katelyn what she might have wanted.  Also if a Mother has money to spend on drugs can’t you at least buy

something for your Daughter?  Oh that’s right the drugs come first.  Katelyn would not hide her disgust over the cheap gifts.  I don’t blame her.  

This child should have had more help.   Where was her Father?   too many men are seemingly sperm donors meaning they impregnate a woman & like Houdini vanish into thin air.

I plan on sharing her Vlogs on my own blog site I’ve decided.  If it makes you uncomfortable too bad.   I plan to keep her memory alive.  She took her life December 30th 2016.

Her Mother didn’t even seem to care according to a YouTuber Vlogger who goes by “Mr Gunk”   She seemed drugged, detached or whatever.   What a sorry excuse for a human.   

In Memory of Katelyn Nicole Davis

2004-2016

Easter, I love It But It’s Lonely

I love Easter.   But I have no family to spend it with.  I’m also living in this homeless shelter.   On Sunday’s because I live so far out on the Peninsula there are no:

Public buses

Paratransit vans (I was able to transfer my account out here but on Sundays = Nope)

So, I have no way off this island.  Oh & there is no foot ferry that runs.  A foot ferry is the 10 minute ride that gets me to the main place Bremerton to catch the bigger ferry.   So on Sundays I’m absolutely STUCK!

I don’t like this place I prefer to head out to Seattle but can’t and that sucks.   I so want to go to Easter service but you know what often what I encounter is people who treat me like something dirty.   I don’t look bad but people sure are judgmental especially the Christian folk.   I can’t afford nice clothes, I don’t have the best looking figure in the world but I mean it isn’t bad, or haven’t you noticed all the mannequin looking people.   

My Mother is still alive but to put it mildly she doesn’t do shit on Easter.  No fixing of food….NOTHING!  She won’t do it.  Most families especially black families COOK! but not my Mom.   I mean I tried to get her to leave the house just to have coffee with me because it was a pretty good day today.   All I heard were excuses.

Oh well.   I’m so tired of this.   I hate this.  But most of  all Easter was when my Father took me away from my Mother I was 8. 

I remember that it was Easter because when I arrived at my Fathers smelly duplex he had waiting for me a stuffed Easter bunny, a Easter basket and that’s all I remember.   I can’t describe to you how painful that memory was.   That a Father could deliberately inflict that enormous amount of pain on two human beings one my Mother the other ME.   Tells me that he is an APE!    I’m glad he is dead.  Don’t miss him.   What he did or didn’t know is irrelevant to me.   Easter.